Past few weeks have given me a total new outlook to life.
I don’t know if I have suddenly become
more mature but my thoughts about living life have changed from roaming around, laughing at everything,
getting things done on last minute to being good, content, positive and working
my dreams.
How often do we think of getting good things in life? Always?
And how often do we think of being good? Sometimes? I have a great faith in
Karma, that is to say, I strongly believe in what goes around comes around. So,
instead of wishing to get good things, I just have started to do good things,
feel great for what I have and be positive about everything possible. What do
we have when we are born? Nothing right and we take nothing back! So why worry
about getting things? We are not going to have anything forever anyway!
Moreover, I have found easiest way to be positive which is telling myself that things
could have been worse!
I have started to take problems as challenges. Don’t we learn
new things every time we go through a difficult situation? Needless to say it makes us stronger and more mature.
Life is not always bed of roses, and avoiding problems will only make facing
other problems in life tougher. Instead of trying to make children’s’ life easy
and comfortable, should not parents make them ready to face problems? I often
wonder. Once my prayers used to be, “please do not make me go through that” and
now surprisingly it has changed to “give me courage to face everything that
comes along.”
Dreams, aims and ambitions how important are they? I had
never thought about my ambitions as much as I do in current date. Being able to
give a proper speech in front of small group of people makes me so happy, how
would it feel like to be a great public speaker? Being able to write a small program
on my own makes my day, how would it feel like to be a superb programmer? Working
on what we dream about is very important and so is being very positive about
it.
Often times in life we search for happiness outside. We
expect our loved ones to do things for us and our unfulfilled expectations become
the major sources of unhappiness. Why do we depend on others for our own
happiness? When happiness is all about being good, content, positive and making
our dreams come true.
